1、第1页第2页1)prospective A outcome2)solid B experience3)memorable C relationship4)positive D love5)true E husband/wifeTask 1Answer the questions by matching the following items.1 What do you expect from an Internet dating?第3页1)giving out A health2)meeting with B a liar3)suffering C normal life4)affecting
2、 D loss of money5)damaging E personal informationTask 12 What dangers may you face when you surf the Internet?第4页Task 2An evacuation map is of extreme importance when someone is in a dangerous or threatened building.Work with your partner and create an emergency evacuation map for the teaching build
3、ing of your school.Your map should be clear and include the following items:The starting point Exits Fire extinguisher icons（灭火器标志）First-aid stations Escape stairwayEVACUATION MAPFire ExtinguisherFire ExtinguisherFire ExtinguisherFirst AidYou Are HereMarshal AreaN第5页Background information Traditiona
4、l ways of dating in Western countries在过去，单身人士寻找另二分之一方式主要有以下几个：在学校认识，或经过工作认识对方；亲戚朋友介绍认识；还有就是在酒吧、婚礼或者派对上偶遇。第6页Background information在线约会已经成为人们彼此相遇第三种普遍方式。美国相亲网站当前已经趋于成熟，其中部分网站甚至是全球规模，如1995年上线M是最早相亲网站之一，现在已经发展为全世界最大约会网站。美国相亲网站通常分两种-收费网站和无偿网站。收费网站经过会员订费盈利，而无偿网站靠则是广告费。现在这一产业年赢利已超10亿美元。Internet dating in
5、USA第7页Background information 网络相亲看起来很浪漫，但也存在着不少危险，遭遇骗子就是其中之一。骗子通常在取得对方信任后以种种理由骗取对方金钱财物。据统计年在美国这类受害者总损失共计约340,000,000美元。Online dating scams第8页Background information A new trend of Internet dating in USA可能是意识到了网络相亲存在种种潜在危险，以及互联网本身虚拟性，现在美国越来越多相亲网站开始回归传统，主动拓展其线下服务。网站会举行各式各样线下活动邀请会员参加，比如晚餐约会，其形式可能也非一对一，而
6、是有数人参加更靠近于朋友聚会或俱乐部活动。此举受到了欢迎，因为大家逐步意识到利用网络互发邮件、聊天终究无法替换人和人面对面交流时所产生情感碰撞。第9页Reading ItThe Dangers of Internet Dating*WordsBetter acquaintance1 The day has come when Internet dating is consideredto be a legitimate way of meeting new people.In the search for the right person,chat rooms have replaced ba
7、rs,and Internet dating sites are no longer what they used to be.You may still get a raised eyebrow when telling people you are using the Internet in your search for the perfect date,but the reaction will not be as it was in the past.Internet dating has gained in popularity by leaps and bounds but un
8、fortunately,so have the dangers and horror stories some have encountered.2 A girl named Carol recently told her story about Internet dating.*legitimate a.合情合理；正当replacev.代替；取代*eyebrow n.眉毛*reaction n.反应popularityn.受大家喜爱或赞赏性质或状态；普及；流行horrorn.令人恐怖或讨厌事物或人；恐怖*encounter v.碰到或发觉自己面临（令人不快危险困难处境）2一个叫卡罗尔女孩子最
9、近讲述了她在互联网上找男朋友经历。1如今，网络相亲这种寻找意中人方式已被大家所认可。网络聊天室已经取代了酒吧，相亲交友网站也非同以往了。当你告诉他人你正在互联网上寻求完美约会时，可能他人还是会表示一下吃惊，不过反应已不会像过去那么激烈了。网络相亲快速普及开来，遗憾是，一些人也在网络相亲时遭碰到了危险、恐怖事情，这些事情发生越来越多。第10页3 “One of my girlfriends kept pressuring me to try Internet dating since my romantic life seemed to be going nowhere fast.She sen
10、t me an Internet dating website and helped me make a profile of my own.This was how I met Matt,who lived in another state,but said he noticed me because his job was relocating him this year,so he might as well look for love where he was going to be living.This sounded reasonable at the time,but now,
11、looking back on it,it was Red Flag Number 1.We exchanged emails with increasing frequency and we seemed to have a lot in common.He asked for my phone number and I asked for his instead.He said that since he was moving he had disconnected his home phone number and only used his cell phone in preparat
12、ion for his move.Again,this didnt sound like a problem,but should have been Red Flag Number 2!We kept chatting on the phone,and I began to notice he didnt answer my calls during evenings and at weekends.He said since his job was paying for it,he had to limit his evening and weekend calls.Once again,
13、this guy had an excuse for everything,but I should have seen this as Red Flag Number 3!*pressure v.对施加压力或影响 n.压力*profile n.人物介绍*relocate v.使安置于新地点；重新确定位置disconnect v.使不连接；使分离3“因为我约会总是不成功，我一个女性朋友一直游说我尝试一下网络相亲。她给我发了一个相亲网站网址，还帮我做了一份个人情况介绍。在这个网站上我遇见了马特。他住在另外一个州，但他告诉我他工作今年将调动到我所在地方，所以他不如在他即将搬来地方找个恋爱对象，所以
14、他在网站上注意到了我资料。那个时候我以为他说得合情合理，但现在回头看看，这应该是第一个示警信号。我们越来越频繁互发邮件，我们发觉我们似乎有很多共同点。他要了我电话号码。不过当我问他电话号码时候，他却说因为要迁居，他已经切断了住宅电话，现在只用手机。瞧，又一个理由。他说好象没什么问题，但其实应该是第二个示警信号。我们不停在电话里聊天，我开始注意到马特不接我电话时间主要是在晚上和周末。他理由是因为是由企业付电话费，所以他必须限制自己下班后晚上和周末电话数量。瞧，又是一个理由。这个男人有各种各样借口，我在当初就应该发觉这其实是第三个示警信号。第11页4 A friend told me she wa
15、s writing to some man on the Internet dating site from out of the state.I decided just to browse to find who was out there.Guess who it was?Matt!His profile was still active on the site.He was in several different states with several different“handles”,but the one thing he did was keep the same phot
16、o.So,I asked my friend to help me set up a phony profile on the site to try and find out what he was up to.I wrote to him pretending to be a woman from a different state.We wrote back and forth.I got an email from him saying how he was going to move to THAT state in a few months,and wanted to meet s
17、omeone THERE because THAT was where he was moving!I was fuming.I realized this was all a bunch of lies.This man was never moving to my town or any other.He was just using this Internet dating site as a way to make false promises to women who were looking for something long-term!Now when I go to Inte
18、rnet dating sites,I only choose people who live in my area NOW.I recommend that people who are looking for a long-term relationship start in their own area!*browse v.浏览；随意翻阅handlen.名称；头衔*phony a.虚假；伪造；不可信*fume v.发怒falsea.不老实；错误；假这个男人绝不会搬到我生活这个城镇，也不会搬到其它任何一个他网上交往女人所在地域。他只是利用这个相亲网站对一些渴求长久爱情女性许下虚假誓言。现在
19、当我再上相亲网站时候，我只会选择那些和我生活在同一地域男人，且必须是现在正生活在这儿。那些正在网络上寻觅长久稳定伴侣人们，我提议，从你们生活地方开始求偶之旅。“4一个朋友告诉我，她也正在那个相亲网站上和某个男人通信，那个男人也来自于其它州。我决定上相亲网站看看到底怎么一回事。你们猜猜那个男人是谁，正是马特！他竟然还没有撤下他个人资料（即使我们已经在约会了）。他为自己编造了几个不一样名字身份，生活在不一样州，唯一不变是他照片。所以，我请我一位朋友帮我在那个网站上伪造了一份个人情况介绍，我试图查出这个男人终究在搞什么名堂。我假装成来自另一州一个女人，给他写了封信。我们开始通信。在他一封邮件里，他告
20、诉我说他几个月后就将搬到现在这个“我”所在“那个”州，而且确切地点就是“我”所生活“那个”地域，他想在“那里”找到一个爱人。我简直太生气了。我意识到他所说一切都是谎言。第12页5 The anonymity of Internet dating has afforded con artists a new playground for scams,and has allowed people to be anyone they think you want them to be because they are engaging others primarily through written
21、 words.People need to understand the dangers so they can make their search a safe one.6 Internet dating has been portrayed mostly with“success stories”,because many of those who have had bad experiences are too embarrassed to talk about them openly,thinking they are a rarity or the“unlucky one”.Movi
22、es and TVs have also focused on the lighter side of Internet dating as opposed to the darker side.Whats tricky here is people WANT to believe they are going to find what they are looking for(nothing wrong with that)and DONT want to believe someone may be lying to them or playing games.They think the
23、y are“too smart”to fall for a scoundrel.It is that attitude that leaves them wide open to be proven wrong.If you are planning to surf the Internet with high hopes and expectations,arm yourself with the knowledge of what to avoid and what to watch out for,so you have the best possible chance of a pos
24、itive outcome.*anonymity n.匿名；无名；匿名者*con n.诈骗*artist n.能手；大师*scam n.欺诈；骗局engagev.吸引；占用（某人时间）*primarily ad.主要地；首先*portray v.描写；描绘；饰演embarrassv.使（某人）以为不自然尴尬或害羞rarityn.罕见人或东西*tricky a.难对付；棘手；狡猾*scoundrel n.恶棍；流氓；无赖6对于网络相亲为何多半被描述成一个个成功故事，原因在于很多有着不愉快经历相亲者们不好意思公开谈论他们经历，他们自认为自己经历极少见，自己是倒霉鬼。电影电视也是聚焦于网络相亲光明一
25、面，而非阴暗面。还有很微妙一点，人们总是愿意相信自己终会在网络上找到自己正在寻觅意中人（当然这没什么错），不愿意相信会有些人对他们撒谎或只是和他们玩玩而已。人们自视聪明，自认不会被无赖坑骗。正是这种态度使得他们非常轻易在网上相亲受骗，而受骗经历又证实他们之前想法是错误。假如你正在计划去互联网上寻觅爱人，并对此抱有很高期望，那么先明了网络求偶需要避开陷阱、需要小心注意事项，用这些知识武装自己，如此你才最有可能得到理想结果（觅得你所要）。5互联网匿名特征给那些骗子们提供了一个新行骗舞台，在网上你希望他们是什么样人他们就能够成为何样人，因为他们主要是经过文字来吸引你。人们需要了解存在于网络上这些危险
26、，从而使他们相亲变得安全。第13页Understanding ItTask 1 Read the text and answer the following questions.1 Why did Carol want to try Internet dating?2 What happened after Carol wrote to Matt with a phony profile?Because her dating life always seemed unsuccessful,and one of her friends kept asking her to try Interne
27、t dating.Matt responded to her email.They wrote back and forth.He told Carolle that he would move to the state where she pretended to be.第14页Understanding It3 What does Carol suggest people do when they are looking for a long-term relationship on the Internet?4 On the Internet what makes it easy for
28、 con artists to cheat those who are looking for their prospective mates?5 How should a person prepare himself/herself for dating online?She suggests that people who are looking for a long-term relationship should choose those who live in the same state.The anonymity of Internet dating.To arm himself
29、 with the knowledge of what to avoid and what to watch out for.第15页Task 2 Read the text again and correct the following statements.1 Internet dating has become more and more popular because it is safer than before.2 Carol made a profile by herself when she began to try Internet dating.1 Internet dat
30、ing is not so safe as before.Internet dating has gained in popularity by leaps and bounds,but unfortunately,so have the dangers and horror stories some have encountered.2 One of Carolles friends sent her an Internet dating website and helped her to make a profile第16页3 He refused to give the girl his
31、 home phone number.He said he had disconnected it since he was moving.3 Matt gave Carol his home phone number when they dated on the Internet.4 Matt answered Carols calls whenever she called him.4 Matt didnt answer her calls mainly during evenings and weekends.第17页5 Movies and TVs have focused on th
32、e lighter side of Internet dating as opposed to the darker side.5 Movies and TVs tend to display the dark side of Internet dating.第18页Task 3 Arrange the order of the following events according to Carols narration of her own story.1 One of Carols friends helped her create a profile on an Internet dat
33、ing website.2 Carol found Matt was dating different women with different names.3 Carol met a man named Matt on the dating site for the first time.4 Carol realized that Matt was a cheat.5 Carol and Matt exchanged emails and chatted on the phone.6 A friend told Carol that she was dating a man who live
34、d in another state on that dating site._ _ _ _ _ _135624第19页Language Points代替，取代e.g.ImreplacingSueontheteam.使不连接，使分离;切断（电、气、水供给）e.g.Disconnectthecablesbeforeyoutrytomovethecomputer.replace disconnectWords虚伪；错误；假e.g.Grandpahaslosthisfalseteethagain.toattractsomeoneandkeeptheirinterest吸引e.g.Thenewtoyd
35、idntengagethechildsinterestforlong.engage in从事，（使）忙于e.g.Thepoliticiansengaged inadiscussion.政客们讨论了一个问题。false engage使窘迫，使为难e.g.Theoldwomansquestionsembarrassedhim,makinghimmomentarilytongue-tied.embarrassed 尴尬，为难embarrassing令人尴尬，令人为难 embarrass第20页Language Points往返地；重复地e.g.Thebusrunsback and forthbetw
36、eentheairportandthedowntownarea.back and forthPhrases&Expressions arm oneself/sb.(with sth.)用武装自己或他人e.g.Ivearmed myself withallthefactsIneedtoprovemypoint.一串；一束 a bunch of相正确；相反；而不是e.g.Studentsdiscussideas,as opposed tojustcopyingfrombooks.as opposed to非常快速地e.g.AndrewsGermanisimprovingby leaps and b
37、ounds.by leaps and bounds被某人所吸引；爱上某人；迷恋某人e.g.ThatwasthesummerIworkedatthefairground,andmetandfell forLucy.fall for sb.第21页Language Points（用作危险信号或停顿信号）示警 red flagPhrases&Expressions lay sb.(wide)open to sth.使某人遭受某事e.g.Whatyousaywilllayyourselfwideopentocriticism.变得越来越受欢迎e.g.Classicalmusicisgaining in
38、 popularity.gain in popularity回顾；回想；回头看 look back on忙于；密谋e.g.Thechildrenareveryquiet;Iwonderwhattheyreup to.up to提防；戒备e.g.Youhavetowatch out forfasttrafficalonghere.watch out for might/may as well do sth.倒不如做某事；不妨做某事e.g.Itsnogoodwaitingforthebus.Wemight as wellwalk.第22页Doing ItTask 11There are alway
39、s some“red flags”that we should have noticed during Internet dating.Find the three red flags in Carols Internet dating experience.Red flag 1:Matt told that he noticed Carolle because he would move to live in the place where Carolle was now.Red flag 2:He didnt give Carolle his home phone number.He ex
40、plained that he was moving so he had disconnected the phone number and only used his cell phone.Red flag 3:He didnt answer Carolles calls during evenings and weekends.His excuse was that his company paid for his calls so he should limit the charge.第23页2A red flag is a warning signal,but we often see
41、 it too late.Suppose you were Carol,express your feeling by“I regret that.”after you were cheated by Matt.EXAMPLE:I regret that I have said unkind things about my classmate.I regret that I took my friends advice and tried Internet dating.I regret that I didnt see those red flags in my online dating
42、with Matt.I regret that I fell for Matt too quickly.I regret that I neglected Matts suspicious behaviour when we chatted on the Internet.第24页3Have you ever done anything that you now feel regretful about?Exchange your regrets in small groups with the sentence pattern“I regret that.”.Choose one stude
43、nt to record for each group.4Discuss in groups to see how to remedy(补救)the regrets in Step 3.RegretsRemediesStudent A:I regret that I didnt work hard in senior high school.Student B:I regret that I have lost the chance of studying at Peking University-my dream college.Student C:I regret what I said
44、to my parents just now on the phone.For A:As an old saying goes,better late than never.You should work hard now.For B:Dont give up.You should keep on working hard.If you are good enough,you can be a postgraduate student at Peking University.For C:How about apologizing to your parents?Give them a cal
45、l and say sorry.第25页Task 21Read Carols story again.Have you noticed what Matt liked to say when the girl asked for his phone number or called him during evenings and at weekends?He asked for my phone number and I asked for his instead.He said _.We kept chatting on the phone,and I began to notice he
46、didnt answer my calls during evenings and at weekends.He said _.that since he was moving he had disconnected his home phone number and only used his cel in preparation for his movesince his job was paying for it,he had to limit his evening and weekend calls第26页2The conjunction“since”,meaning“for the
47、 reason that”,leads an adverbial clause of cause(原因状语从句).It is often translated into“既然，因为”in Chinese,implying that the reason has already been known to others.Complete the following sentences with the Chinese hints in brackets.EXAMPLE:Since you know German,you should be able to translate the passag
48、e.既然你会德语，你就应该能翻译出这篇文章。1 _(既然你对这件事这么有把握),well believe you.2 _(你既然都这么说了),I think it is true.3 He didnt attend the meeting _(因为出差).4 _(既然他不愿意接手这项工作),lets assign another one to do it.Since you are so sure of itSince you say sosince he was on a business tripSince he is unwilling to take over the job第27页3
49、Imagine you were trying Internet dating.You have rejected a few candidates.Your friend inquired about the reasons why you rejected those people.Prepare some excuses for the inquiry and list them.Then role-play a conversation between you and your friend.EXAMPLE:Since he still loves his ex-girlfriend,
50、I dont want to date the man.Since he still loves his ex-girlfriend,I reject that man.Since he is an unrealistic guySince we are not in the same citySince he cant give up smokingFriend:hello,Mary,Ive heard that you are trying Internet dating.So hows it going?Mary:Well,I rejected quite a few men.F:Why
